看了好的大神的方法，只有这个编译成功了

// Copyright Epic Games, Inc. All Rights Reserved.
//build.cs

using System;
using System.IO;
using UnrealBuildTool;

public class MyProjectThird01 : ModuleRules
{
    //private string ThirdPartyPath
    //{
    //    get { return Path.GetFullPath(Path.Combine(ModuleDirectory, "../../ThirdParty/")); }
    //}

    public MyProjectThird01(ReadOnlyTargetRules Target) : base(Target)
	{
		


        PCHUsage = PCHUsageMode.UseExplicitOrSharedPCHs;
	
		PublicDependencyModuleNames.AddRange(new string[] { "Core", "CoreUObject", "Engine", "InputCore"});

		PrivateDependencyModuleNames.AddRange(new string[] {  });

        var basepath0 = Path.GetFullPath(Path.Combine(ModuleDirectory));
        basepath0 += "//lib";

        var basepath1 = Path.GetFullPath(Path.Combine(ModuleDirectory));
        basepath1 += "//include";

        //宏报错
        bEnableUndefinedIdentifierWarnings = false;
        //PublicIncludePaths.Add(Path.Combine(ModuleDirectory, "Include"));
        //PublicAdditionalLibraries.Add(Path.Combine(ModuleDirectory, "lib", "sqlite3.lib"));

    }
}